"Her Husband Could Never Accept That Our Daughter Is Sick." The Story of a Single Mother and Her Daughter

Наталья Маркова Local news
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Begimai Toktosunova is a single mother who, after her divorce, was left alone with her daughter suffering from a severe form of cerebral palsy and her sick mother. For almost six years, Begimai has been coping with difficulties, but her income barely covers daily expenses and the necessary medical care for her daughter and mother. In addition to cerebral palsy, the girl also has strabismus and bilateral ankle joint deformity, as well as a number of other health issues.

“Aykol was born prematurely, and right after her birth, we learned about her diagnosis of cerebral palsy. At first, my ex-husband actively helped me take care of our daughter, but gradually his attitude changed, and soon he left. I think he could never come to terms with the fact that our daughter is sick,” Begimai shares.

When she was left alone with the little girl, who needed constant care and treatment, Begimai moved from her village to Bishkek.

"My husband could never accept that our daughter is sick." The story of a single mother and her daughter

Begimai's daughter has a number of complex diagnoses; she needs help.
“In the village, I earned a living selling buns in stores. In Bishkek, I found a job as a hairdresser in a beauty salon. My earnings increased, but expenses in the city also rose significantly,” she shares.

Aykol has already undergone two surgeries in Bishkek aimed at correcting the bilateral ankle joint deformity, but the results were not as successful as expected.



Begimai's daughter has a number of complex diagnoses; she needs help.



Begimai's daughter has a number of complex diagnoses; she needs help.



Begimai's daughter has a number of complex diagnoses; she needs help.

“I learned that abroad there is an opportunity to perform a more complex but more effective surgery. I started gathering information and contacted doctors in Turkey. They assured me that in our case, it is possible to correct the clubfoot. However, the surgery costs $25,000, and I do not have such funds, and I do not know how to earn them in a short period,” says Begimai.

I decided to start a fundraising campaign for Aykol's surgery and ask everyone who can help to contribute any amount. Every penny is important to us.



Begimai's daughter has a number of complex diagnoses; she needs help.
Aykol is Begimai's only child. She has never been able to walk, and all of her mother's efforts are directed at helping her get on her feet. Begimai's dream is to see her daughter take her first steps.

“I really need your support. Over these six years, I have coped with all the difficulties that have arisen on Aykol's path. She has suffered from pain, and I have experienced it with her. I have the strength to help her, but I am unable to find the necessary amount of money. Therefore, putting aside my shame, I turned to kind people for help,” she concludes.


Begimai's daughter has a number of complex diagnoses; she needs help.
Begimai has managed to raise 500,000 soms, but this amount is not enough to fully cover the cost of the surgery.
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